...tangled ramblings... 

Dedications made to remember and celebrate the lives of those who have died. 

This website was designed by the reluctant widow and built in partnership with est,north. To find out more about est.north and their work click here.

...about me... 



I am so glad you found this website! I hope that you find it useful. As you might have guessed by the title of the website, I am a widow, 8 years in on my journey now.

If you'd like to read a little more about me, and my journey, please  click here

I hope you find the site helpful, and I'd always welcome your comments on how it can be improved. I have lots of plans, but these things take time alongside a full time job, so please stick around as the site grows :)

With love always, 

the reluctant widow x


Some things are worth talking to someone about. If you are struggling or know someone who is, take a look at these organisations that may be able to help. 

Many of my followers on the reluctant widow facebook page are not widows, or widowers. They are friends and family of someone who has experienced deep grief, so I wanted to have a dedicated space full of links and places you might find support. 


On behalf of those people, I just want to thank you for caring enough to not just say you'll be there for them, you're actually searching for ways to really be there. You rock x

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