Nov 19, 20212 minSharing GriefA few months after my husband died, I was offered the opportunity to go to a grief support group. I have to be honest and say I wasn’t...
Nov 9, 20214 minThe Dreaded Firsts - The Expected Oh where to start with this one? The Dreaded Firsts were so incredibly painful. These are things that you expect to be painful. Their...
Nov 7, 20211 minSending Love It's such a lovely thing to see a heart shape in the sky, or when two airplanes cross path and they make a giant kiss in the sky. It just...
Nov 6, 20211 minTough Times Never LastI have a saying that I love. It really helps to keep me grounded, and to live in today, and not worry about what comes next. This is NOT...
Nov 4, 20212 minSomeone To Watch Over MeI am not a religious person, but I am spiritual I guess, if I needed to put a label on my belief system. I don't believe in heaven, or...
Nov 3, 20212 minYou're So Strong....I think it just becomes one of those things people say to you. "You're amazing, I don't know how you do it, you are so strong", they say....
Oct 28, 20213 minThis Didn't Happen To MeImagine this. I've just come out of the drs surgery. I went to collect a repeat prescription, and while in there, saw someone I used to...
Oct 27, 20212 minA Musical BlurI remember the first time I heard our wedding song, out in the real world. It was strange, because it was totally unexpected. We...
Oct 25, 20212 minSomeone To Watch Over MeI am not religious in the slightest. I don't know what I believe in terms of what happens after death. There is part of me that is very...
Oct 21, 20212 minStand Tall, and Find The SunlightI love sunflowers. Not just because they're so pretty, but also because when the sun is out, they turn their head towards the sun....
Jul 16, 20212 minJust Remember...We all need reminding sometimes. It is very easy to forget that we're not defined by our grief. I often took the reactions of others very...
Jul 16, 20213 minLittle By Little So many things worried me when my husband died. I lost sleep over my worries, and if I managed to work through a worry, five more came...
Jul 13, 20212 minNumbered Days Another beautiful quote from the amazing author, John Green. "You gave me a forever within the numbered days, and I'm grateful". I love...
Jul 11, 20212 minLive With The Love This is so true, and really struck a chord with me. The path we walk can feel so lonely, feeling like we're constantly alone, without the...
Jul 11, 20212 minGrief TimelineGrief isn't linear. It doesn't have a defined finish point, and certainly doesn't have a tidy little timeline to tell you when you can...
Jul 11, 20212 minThe Validity Of Thoughts As someone with an incredibly overactive mind, and a brain that rarely switches off, this was a vital lesson for me. Your thoughts are...
Jul 11, 20211 minIf You're Struggling...We're all fighting our own battles. Whether it's with our feelings and emotions, coping with our loss, dealing with difficult family...
Jul 11, 20212 minI'm A BelieverThere is a wonderful quote from the film, Good Will Hunting: "Some people can't believe in themselves until someone believes in them...
Jul 11, 20212 minThe Wisdom of Alice (In Wonderland)When I was a little girl, my dad used to read Alice in Wonderland to me, it had always been one of my favourite books, I hung on to every...
Jul 11, 20212 minBe Your Own CheerleaderMaking a life for yourself after you've experienced the death of someone very close to you, let's face it, it's bloody difficult. There...