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    Sharing Grief
    • Nov 19, 2021
    • 2 min

    Sharing Grief

    A few months after my husband died, I was offered the opportunity to go to a grief support group. I have to be honest and say I wasn’t...
    The Dreaded Firsts - The Expected
    • Nov 9, 2021
    • 4 min

    The Dreaded Firsts - The Expected

    Oh where to start with this one? The Dreaded Firsts were so incredibly painful. These are things that you expect to be painful. Their...
    Sending Love
    • Nov 7, 2021
    • 1 min

    Sending Love

    It's such a lovely thing to see a heart shape in the sky, or when two airplanes cross path and they make a giant kiss in the sky. It just...
    Tough Times Never Last
    • Nov 6, 2021
    • 1 min

    Tough Times Never Last

    I have a saying that I love. It really helps to keep me grounded, and to live in today, and not worry about what comes next. This is NOT...
    Someone To Watch Over Me
    • Nov 4, 2021
    • 2 min

    Someone To Watch Over Me

    I am not a religious person, but I am spiritual I guess, if I needed to put a label on my belief system. I don't believe in heaven, or...
    You're So Strong....
    • Nov 3, 2021
    • 2 min

    You're So Strong....

    I think it just becomes one of those things people say to you. "You're amazing, I don't know how you do it, you are so strong", they say....
    This Didn't Happen To Me
    • Oct 28, 2021
    • 3 min

    This Didn't Happen To Me

    Imagine this. I've just come out of the drs surgery. I went to collect a repeat prescription, and while in there, saw someone I used to...
    A Musical Blur
    • Oct 27, 2021
    • 2 min

    A Musical Blur

    I remember the first time I heard our wedding song, out in the real world. It was strange, because it was totally unexpected. We...
    Someone To Watch Over Me
    • Oct 25, 2021
    • 2 min

    Someone To Watch Over Me

    I am not religious in the slightest. I don't know what I believe in terms of what happens after death. There is part of me that is very...
    Stand Tall, and Find The Sunlight
    • Oct 21, 2021
    • 2 min

    Stand Tall, and Find The Sunlight

    I love sunflowers. Not just because they're so pretty, but also because when the sun is out, they turn their head towards the sun....
    Just Remember...
    • Jul 16, 2021
    • 2 min

    Just Remember...

    We all need reminding sometimes. It is very easy to forget that we're not defined by our grief. I often took the reactions of others very...
    Little By Little
    • Jul 16, 2021
    • 3 min

    Little By Little

    So many things worried me when my husband died. I lost sleep over my worries, and if I managed to work through a worry, five more came...
    Numbered Days
    • Jul 13, 2021
    • 2 min

    Numbered Days

    Another beautiful quote from the amazing author, John Green. "You gave me a forever within the numbered days, and I'm grateful". I love...
    Live With The Love
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    Live With The Love

    This is so true, and really struck a chord with me. The path we walk can feel so lonely, feeling like we're constantly alone, without the...
    Grief Timeline
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    Grief Timeline

    Grief isn't linear. It doesn't have a defined finish point, and certainly doesn't have a tidy little timeline to tell you when you can...
    The Validity Of Thoughts
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    The Validity Of Thoughts

    As someone with an incredibly overactive mind, and a brain that rarely switches off, this was a vital lesson for me. Your thoughts are...
    If You're Struggling...
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 1 min

    If You're Struggling...

    We're all fighting our own battles. Whether it's with our feelings and emotions, coping with our loss, dealing with difficult family...
    I'm A Believer
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    I'm A Believer

    There is a wonderful quote from the film, Good Will Hunting: "Some people can't believe in themselves until someone believes in them...
    The Wisdom of Alice (In Wonderland)
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    The Wisdom of Alice (In Wonderland)

    When I was a little girl, my dad used to read Alice in Wonderland to me, it had always been one of my favourite books, I hung on to every...
    Be Your Own Cheerleader
    • Jul 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    Be Your Own Cheerleader

    Making a life for yourself after you've experienced the death of someone very close to you, let's face it, it's bloody difficult. There...
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